Four Simple Ways to End Your Next Argument
"You're not listening to me," exclaimed Jennifer as she threw the mail down on the kitchen table. "It's not about the dishes, it's about everything!""What are you talking about," questioned Mark, her...
View ArticleDo You Know Where Your Relationship Is Going?
Are you in your 20's or 30's and wondering what you're doing at a bar? Are you entering "relationships" and quickly wondering "where is this going?" Are you feeling like you can't let someone get too...
View ArticleCan your relationship survive an affair?
Yes...but...If having an affair is a deal-breaker, don't pretend it isn't. If you want to work through this, though, there are things you can do. There's a lot that has to be done. First, you have to...
View ArticleA Relationship Myth to Avoid: Having To Be " In Love" Forever
Being in love is an emotional high for most normal people. It's a time when reality can be better than your dreams. I've heard some describe it as a time when the world changes from bleak black and...
View ArticleDoes Christianity Provide Good Self-Statements For Cognitive Behavior Therapy?
It's been well established the benefits of Cognitive Behavior Therapy (CBT). The way we self- talk influences our reactions to life events and our feeling about them. I have long believed that we can't...
View ArticleHow to choose a desirable partner and avoid a bad choice
To be able to recognize a suitable mate, you have to know what actually constitutes a desirable partner. Many people don't have an idea of what truly satisfies them. They confuse what they need with...
View ArticleRelationships Today: To Text or Not to Text, Is It a Curse or Blessing?
Previous generations were less accessible when they started to date. Many couldn't leave a message or voicemail. Now most of us have, by courtesy of the cell phone, the capacity to be in constant...
View ArticleIs Jealousy the Unwanted Biproduct of Your Relationships or You Just Being...
Is jealousy a normal feeling in a relationship?Brian, a happily married man, worked at a local college campus. His wife,Lori, insisted that he not look at the co-eds. She had him place dots on trees...
View ArticleWhy You Can Hate the One You Love
Do you seem to always hurt the ones you love? Do you ever fear that you feel that sometimes you act as if you hate them? Four reasons are addressed here that may help answer this dilemma.read more
View ArticleWhat to do when you're dumped
When you are dumped, do you mourn, wait or go on? Do you think it's a nightmare and you can't believe this is happening? Should you call? What are they doing? How can they live without me? Who are they...
View ArticleCan you understand, tolerate, and overcome your social anxiety
It's little wonder so many more people are becoming socially anxious. There has been a proliferation of cell phone, computer based chat rooms, texting, twitter, internet dating services and facebook....
View ArticleAre Your Friends Trying To Ruin Your Love Life?
After you establish a new love relationship, your friends can become just as jealous as a scorned lover. S/he might be completely unsupportive, fault finding, create chaos and soap opera drama by...
View ArticleWhat's your top secret
Most are haunted by their top secret and have never disclosed it. Can you do this anonymously?
View ArticleCan You Friend Your Way to a Serious Love Relationship?
It's miraculous to find someone you want to date who is available to date you. Can you build a friendship and realize you might be in queue? read more
View ArticleHow to Get Through a Break-up
The time after a break-up provides an opportunity to process valuable information that can lead to intimate, loving relationships in the future.read more
View ArticleTiger Woods , Sex Addiction, and the Fall From Grace
Is Tiger Woods an American tragedy or just an elite athlete with bad luck?read more
View ArticleAre you really open to the love you seek
Can you let people only get so close? At the same time, do you find you also can't let them get that far way?read more
View ArticleAre You Erecting Love-Barriers?
Are you too picky with others? You can be creating self-defeating intimacy blockers.read more
View ArticleAre You Erecting Love Barriers Part Two: Coming On Too Strong
Sometime you can misread what's going on and come on too strong when your maneuvers just aren't appreciated and causes a premature break-up.read more
View ArticleYou Can Be Too Controlling For Your Own Good and Drive Lovers Away
Can you only love someone who cares less about you than you do about them? Your control manevuers may be causing you problems.read more
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